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	<title>Yet Another Unitarian Universalist</title>
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		<title>An online tool I&#8217;d actually use</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 00:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anne, who sits on our congregation&#8217;s board, pointed out a really useful online tool: SignUpGenius.com. Their tagline reads: &#8220;Organize volunteers online for free.&#8221; It was started by church people; the founder writes: We were having a party for our church small group one time and told people with last names starting with A-M to bring [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anne, who sits on our congregation&#8217;s board, pointed out a really useful online tool: <a href="http://www.signupgenius.com/index.cfm">SignUpGenius.com</a>. Their tagline reads: &#8220;Organize volunteers online for free.&#8221; It was started by church people; the founder writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>We were having a party for our church small group one time and told people with last names starting with A-M to bring drinks and those with N-Z to bring snacks. We all showed up and were shocked to find that every snack family brought chips and salsa and every drinks family brought Diet Coke! It was the most disgusting party meal ever!</p></blockquote>
<p>Anne says she has used this successfully. I&#8217;m going to be trying it out, and thought you&#8217;d want to know about it, too.</p>
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		<title>The implications of living in a multiethnic neighborhood</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 06:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Carol and I live in a multiethnic neighborhood. Based on income, class, and cultural attitude, the people in our neighborhood are just the kind of people who would come to a Unitarian Universalist congregation. I&#8217;ll give a brief description of our neighborhood, and then based on our experience of living in our neighborhood I&#8217;ll tell [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Carol and I live in a multiethnic neighborhood. Based on income, class, and cultural attitude, the people in our neighborhood are just the kind of people who would come to a Unitarian Universalist congregation. I&#8217;ll give a brief description of our neighborhood, and then based on our experience of living in our neighborhood I&#8217;ll tell you why I think they wouldn&#8217;t be welcome in most Unitarian Universalist congregations.</p>
<p>The people across the street are white, and the family has been living in the same house since it was built in the 1890s. The house next to us on one side was recently purchased by an immigrant Russian couple, and we often hear them speaking Russian to their Pug dog. Down the street are several houses and apartments with Latino families; the ones we know about are Mexican. There used to be a couple of African Americans living down the block, but I ahven&#8217;t seen them for a while. We see east Asian people walking down our street, and based on their looks (an unreliable way of determining ethnicity), I&#8217;d guess some of them are probably Filipino, Chinese, and Japanese. </p>
<p>The people in our neighborhood have a variety of professions. We know there are several gardeners in the neighborhood not just because our landlord hires one of them to take care of the yard, but also because they park their pickup trucks on the street. We know of an architect, an artist, a college student, and a test driver who tries out new cars. We all learned there was a child pornographer, but he&#8217;s in jail now. There&#8217;s a stay-at-home mom, a school bus driver who parks his bus on the street when he comes home for lunch, and several people who walk to the Caltrain station dressed in business casual. <span id="more-1627"></span></p>
<p>Claritas (now owned by Neilsen) has a &#8220;lifestyle segmentation system&#8221; that defines which &#8220;lifestyle types&#8221; predominate in a neighborhood. Our ZIP code is dominated by the &#8220;American Dreams&#8221; lifestyle type:</p>
<blockquote><p>American Dreams is a living example of how ethnically diverse the nation has become: just under half the residents are Hispanic, Asian, or African-American. In these multilingual neighborhoods &#8212; one in three speaks a language other than English &#8212; middle-aged immigrants and their children live in upper-middle-class comfort.</p></blockquote>
<p>And the &#8220;lifestyle type&#8221; that is next most common in our ZIP code is &#8220;Bohemian Mix&#8221;:</p>
<blockquote><p>A collection of mobile urbanites, Bohemian Mix represents the nation&#8217;s most liberal lifestyles. Its residents are an ethnically diverse, progressive mix of young singles, couples, and families ranging from students to professionals. In their funky row houses and apartments, Bohemian Mixers are the early adopters who are quick to check out the latest movie, nightclub, laptop, and microbrew.</p></blockquote>
<p>In spite of all we have in common with our neighbors &#8212; Carol and I fit pretty clearly into the &#8220;Bohemian Mix&#8221; lifestyle type &#8212; we don&#8217;t know many people in our neighborhood. There&#8217;s a language barrier in many cases: everyone speaks English, everyone&#8217;s polite, but as our neighbors walk down the street they seem to prefer to talk with their friends in Russian, Spanish, or an east Asian language. And even when there&#8217;s not a language barrier &#8212; with African Americans, with third or fourth generation Latinos &#8212; our neighbors may simply prefer to spend time with people of their own ethnicity.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re comfortable with the fact that not everyone wants to socialize with us. But most Unitarian Universalist congregations expect everyone to know and like and socialize with everyone else. This is in large part because most Unitarian Universalist congregations are quite small &#8212; an average weekly attendance of less than 150 people &#8212; but I think there&#8217;s also an assumption among many Unitarian Universalists that you&#8217;re supposed to have a great deal in common with other people in your congregation. In some congregations, you&#8217;re supposed to listen to Garrison Keillor on the radio, you&#8217;re supposed to vote reliably Democratic, you&#8217;re supposed to send your kids to an elite college (which means you&#8217;re kind of expected to have kids, and you&#8217;re supposed to care a good deal about certain Western cultural icons: Bob Dylan, Beethoven, Betty Friedan, Alan Ginsberg, etc.</p>
<p>But why do you have to try to associate with everyone in your congregation? (Obviously I have to, because I&#8217;m a minister, but I&#8217;m speaking more broadly here.) Why can&#8217;t you just hang out with the people with whom you have the most in common? Why is there so much pressure in Unitarian Universalist congregations to remain so socially homogenous? Why do I feel so much pressure to not say how much I dislike Garrison Keillor, or say the Democrats are too far to the right, or talk about how I believe elite colleges give a crappy education, or mention that I think Bob Dylan and Beethoven are vastly overrated and that I prefer Fernando Pessoa to Alan Ginsberg?</p>
<p>Some people will tell us that it&#8217;s racism. Some people will say that it&#8217;s classism. Some people will say that there&#8217;s a &#8220;UU culture.&#8221; I&#8217;m sure racism and classism are at work, Mostly, though, I think the problem lies in the misguided notion held by many Unitarian Universalists that we are supposed to feel comfortable hanging out with everyone in our congregation. We feel we must achieve a social consensus; we must have congregations where there are no divides of any kind.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why people in my neighborhood won&#8217;t fit into a Unitarian Universalist congregation. Yet I believe they might go to a liberal congregation if there were no implicit social consensus they were expected to fit into. I might be wrong in this, but I believe it&#8217;s something to think about.</p>
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		<title>What to avoid when talking about your religion</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 06:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The January/February, 2012, issue of The Humanist contains an article by Jennifer Hancock titled &#8220;Seven Things To Avoid When Talking to Strangers about Humanism&#8221; (pp. 39, 41). Here&#8217;s her list: &#8220;1. Don&#8217;t expect a negative reaction&#8230;. &#8220;2. Don&#8217;t begin a debate&#8230;. &#8220;3. Keep your definition of humanism simple&#8230;. &#8220;4. Don&#8217;t talk about God&#8230;. &#8220;5. Don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The January/February, 2012, issue of <em>The Humanist</em> contains an article by Jennifer Hancock titled &#8220;Seven Things To Avoid When Talking to Strangers about Humanism&#8221; (pp. 39, 41). Here&#8217;s her list:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;1. Don&#8217;t expect a negative reaction&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;2. Don&#8217;t begin a debate&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;3. Keep your definition of humanism simple&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;4. Don&#8217;t talk about God&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;5. Don&#8217;t make it about them&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;6. Don&#8217;t denigrate religion &#8212; any religion&#8230;.<br />
&#8220;7. Don&#8217;t forget to talk about morality&#8230;.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>While Unitarian Universalism is not equivalent to humanism, despite a few assertions to the contrary, nevertheless these little suggestions work reasonably well for us Unitarian Universalists as well. Here are seven things to avoid talking about when talking about Unitarian Universalism.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t expect a negative reaction.&#8221; &#8212; I might word this a little differently: &#8220;Assume the other person is merely curious.&#8221; Maybe for some Unitarian Universalists, the default reaction to a discussion of religion would be negative, but in our increasingly secular society more and more people have no default reaction, positive or negative, towards religion. They&#8217;re just curious.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t begin a debate.&#8221; &#8212; This could be stated less politely as: &#8220;Don&#8217;t be so damned defensive.&#8221; Turning innocent questions about religion into debates is just going to alienate others.</p>
<p>&#8220;Keep your definition of Unitarian Universalism simple.&#8221; Lots of us have been practicing our &#8220;elevator speeches&#8221; describing Unitarian Universalism in a ten-second sound bite. Elevator speeches actually do work; if you don&#8217;t have one yet, maybe now&#8217;s the time to develop one.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t talk about God.&#8221; It turns out that most people aren&#8217;t that interested in having theological discussions about whether or not God exists, and if God does exist what is the nature of God. When we asked our Mormon friend about her church, she told us about the people and programs, not about theology. When someone asks me about my Unitarian Universalist congregation, I tell them about the amazing Sunday services, the great people who are part of the congregation, the fun that the kids have in Sunday school, the social justice work that we do; there&#8217;s never time to even get to God.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t make it about them.&#8221; If someone wants to ask us about Unitarian Universalism, they don&#8217;t really want us to tell them how much their religion (or lack of religion) sucks. After we&#8217;re done talking about your religion, if they want to talk about their religious affiliation (or lack thereof), we can politely listen. But if they ask us about Unitarian Universalism, it is wise to take their question quite literally, assume they actually want us to tell them about Unitarian Universalism, and then simply tell them.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t denigrate religion &#8212; any religion.&#8221; Denigrating religion either makes us look like schmucks, or it makes us look weird, or possibly both. Denigrating someone else&#8217;s religion? &#8212; that makes me look like the kind of schmuck who can&#8217;t tell you about the positive aspects of their religion so their only option is to badmouth all other religions. And if I claim to be Unitarian Universalist, which means I&#8217;m by definition religious, but I&#8217;m denigrating religion? &#8212; that&#8217;s just plain weird.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t forget to talk about ethics and morality.&#8221; In my experience, most people who ask about my religion are really quite interested in what sort of ethics and morality goes along with my religion. When I tell people that Unitarian Universalists aren&#8217;t particularly worried about what you believe, but we are concerned with what you do with your life, that we are always trying to make this world a better place, particularly for those who are poor or powerless &#8212; this kind of thing is of great interest to people.</p>
<p>So there you have it, modified from Jennifer Hancock&#8217;s original article: seven things to avoid when talking about Unitarian Universalism.</p>
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		<title>Transform and grow your RE program, questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 22:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Congregational growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Below are the questions asked by participants in the workshop &#8220;Transform and Grow Your RE Program,&#8221; a workshop I led at the Pacific Central District annual meeting on April 28, 2012. (First post in this series.) Questions about tracking attendance (1) Under &#8220;policy governance,&#8221; should religious education [RE] attendance numbers be shared with the Board? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Below are the questions asked by participants in the workshop &#8220;Transform and Grow Your RE Program,&#8221; a workshop I led at the Pacific Central District annual meeting on April 28, 2012. (<a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-1/"><em>First post in this series.</em></a>)</p>
<p><strong>Questions about tracking attendance</strong></p>
<p><em>(1) Under &#8220;policy governance,&#8221; should religious education [RE] attendance numbers be shared with the Board? (every month?) &#8212; the congregation? &#8212; or just the executive team?</em></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think it matters whether you&#8217;re using &#8220;policy governance&#8221; or any other kind of governance, I believe we should share attendance figures as widely as possible. In my congregation, I report RE attendance every month to the Board, key staffers, the RE committee, and the Committee on Ministry. Attendance figures for the year always go in the annual report, which goes to all congregational members. I also sometimes report attendance to parents/guardians and volunteers.</p>
<p>One key strategy for transforming a congregational system is building in as many positive feedback loops as possible. Positive feedback loops are those ways that people learn how things are going, and that they receive good feelings when things are going well (negative feedback loops are destructive communications like malicious gossip, triangulation, scolding, meanness, etc.). So as a general principle, I say we should be building lots of positive feedback loops all the time, especially with crucial metrics as attendance figures.</p>
<p><em>(2) Can we see a sample of the spreadsheet you use to track enrollment and average attendance?</em></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a PDF of our Excel attendance spreadsheet for April, 2012, at the UU Church of Palo Alto: <a href='http://danielharper.org/yauu/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/REAttendSample.xls.pdf'>REAttendSample.xls</a></p>
<p>Unfortunately, I cannot share the spreadsheet we use to track enrollment, as it contains the names and birthdates of legal minors. <span id="more-1610"></span></p>
<p><em>(3) How do you calculate average attendance for programs that meet other than Sundays of those that attend more than one program on Sunday? &#8212; how about intergenerational services?</em></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a good answer to this question.</p>
<p>What I do is to calculate average Sunday morning attendance, and then report Sunday evening or other attendance separately (e.g., our children&#8217;s choir has some members who do not come to Sunday school). I base my calculations of average attendance solely on Sunday morning attendance.</p>
<p>But if you have, for example, a Sunday evening youth programming, I don&#8217;t think Sunday morning attendance alone is adequate.</p>
<p><strong>Questions about programs and ministries</strong></p>
<p><em>(4) Have you tried some sort of attendance for kids to attend RE? For example: special event for kids who attended X number of times in a year?</em></p>
<p>No. Some families have little control over how often kids come due to custody arrangements, and kids themselves have often have little control over whether their parents will bring them on Sunday mornings or not. I feel it&#8217;s not quite fair to the kids to give prizes for something they have little control over.</p>
<p><em>(5) What are the religious skills parents are hoping for?</em></p>
<p>Meditation: lots of parents are teaching their kids meditation anyway, and we can reinforce that for them (and I like to connect meditation with the Transcendentalists, especially Thoreau and Emerson).</p>
<p>Public speaking, especially for older kids: the public schools no longer do much with this.</p>
<p>Singing: since the public schools have gutted music programs, any kind of music learning is popular with parents.</p>
<p>Leadership development: of course, many programs aim to provide this; but they do so because it&#8217;s popular with parents.</p>
<p>Civic skills, including both institutionalism and social action: parents want this, and there&#8217;s no better place to learn these skills than in a voluntary association.</p>
<p>And there are many other such skills. Listen to what your parents are saying, and they&#8217;ll tell you many more.</p>
<p><em>(6) How do kids get the idea they&#8217;ve &#8220;mastered&#8221; religious literacy and skills?<em></p>
<p>Ideally, we would develop good assessment instruments so kids would get timely and accurate feedback about their progress.</p>
<p>However, you can do a lot in Sunday school classes. Try having a closing circle at the end of every class, where you go around the circle and ask each kid what they&#8217;ve learned, or where you ask the group to reconstruct what they did in class today (you can coach them). Once kids get the idea that they&#8217;re actually supposed to remember things, they start trying to remember what you&#8217;re teaching them, and they become able to repeat it back to others, e.g., to their parents on the ride home.</p>
<p>Also, you can make expectations clear to everyone. Tell everyone what your four big goals are, and you&#8217;ll see parents and kids wanting to reach those goals themselves; and they will know when they&#8217;ve reached the goals, and when they haven&#8217;t.</p>
<p><em>(7) How do you work towards retaining youth as Unitarian Universalists when they become adults?</em></p>
<p>Well, first of all, we know what we have been doing hasn&#8217;t been working. So we should be prepared to try something other than what we&#8217;ve been doing. Since we know we lose most of our kids between grades 7 and 12, we will want to look very hard at the programs and ministries we have for those ages. Obviously, too, we need to pay attention to the 18-25 age range as well.</p>
<p>Aside from that, I don&#8217;t have any firm answers. I will say that I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s enough to have people who grew up as Unitarian Universalists and who might still call themselves Unitarian Universalists, but who aren&#8217;t regularly involved in some kind of Unitarian Universalist religious community that provides an ongoing accountability and discipline that leads to continued spiritual and religious growth. I&#8217;ve seen lots of people who say, &#8220;I&#8217;m a UU but I don&#8217;t belong to a congregation [or to anything]&#8221; &#8212; and who are, in terms of their religious development and evolution, stuck back in adolescence. It&#8217;s really hard to make religious progress on your own; a very tiny percentage or persons can do it; so nearly all of us need the support, accountability, and discipline of a religious community to make ongoing progress.</p>
<p>A resource I did not mention at the workshop is the book <em>Will Our Children Have Faith? Revised Edition</em> by John Westerhoff (Morehouse Publishing/ Anglican Press, 1976/2000). Though somewhat dated, this book continues to be very useful.</p>
<p><em>(8) Re: religious literacy &#8212; What do we UU say human beings need to do to be &#8220;saved&#8221;? &#8212; i.e., to become whole loving human beings in harmony with ultimate values.</em></p>
<p>We&#8217;re Universalists, which means everyone is saved, whether you want to be or not. And I&#8217;m not trying to be flippant or snarky; this is a fundamental part of our belief structure. The old Universalists used to say, &#8220;God is love.&#8221; We need to realize this all over again.</p>
<p>Something I did not say at the workshop, but should have said: This, by the way, does not preclude the necessity of continuing to work on our religious and spiritual growth. The great Universalist theologian Hosea Ballou pointed out that we can become alienated from the good (from &#8220;God&#8221;, from love), and by so doing create a kind of living hell on earth for ourselves. According to Ballou, a big part of the reason for being religious is to keep ourselves from being in hell here on earth.</p>
<p><em>(9)What is your opinion on singing children out of the service? Does it make them feel kicked out of welcomed?</em></p>
<p>&#8220;Singing the children out&#8221; might work in some congregations, it might not work in others. But here&#8217;s a general principle: we need to listen carefully to our kids, and listen openly and non-defensively. So I was in one congregation where the adults &#8220;sang the children out&#8221; using the song &#8220;Go now in peace.&#8221; And I learned that the kids made up their own words for this song: &#8220;Go now eat peas, Macaroni and cheese,&#8221; and then a couple of lines that I don&#8217;t remember precisely but that were unpleasant, and showed that the kids really didn&#8217;t like being &#8220;sung out.&#8221;</p>
<p>Obviously in this case what the children were learning when they were &#8220;sung out&#8221; was not what was intended by the well-meaning adults. If the kids are getting something that wasn&#8217;t intended, then it&#8217;s time to stop whatever the practice might be. We need to pay attention to what kids <em>really</em> are getting out of our programs and ministries.</p>
<p>In our congregation in Palo Alto, we have the kids leave during the final verse of the first hymn. It&#8217;s just a convenient time for them to leave; there is nothing intended one way or the other. So the kids don&#8217;t have any feeling about it; it&#8217;s just the time they&#8217;re used to leaving the service.</p>
<p><em>(10) How do you incorporate special needs children in a small staffed program?</em></p>
<p>As much as I hate to say it, I think you have to be realistic about what you can offer in your congregation. When you&#8217;re in a small congregation &#8212; and for my money, anything less than an average attendance of 1,000 is a relatively small congregation with limited resources &#8212; you don&#8217;t have the resources to meet everyone&#8217;s needs. If you have a deaf child in your program, and you provide an ASL interpreter, that expense is going to limit you from providing other services to other kids.</p>
<p>Having said that, it is possible to provide good programs and ministries to kids with less demanding special needs (learning disabilities, ADHD, etc.) You can read Sally Patton&#8217;s book <em> Welcoming Children With Special Needs: A Guidebook for Faith Communities</em>.</p>
<p>Something I didn&#8217;t say at the workshop but should have: Years ago, I went to a workshop in Mass Bay District. It was presented by a congregation that had developed a successful ministry to deaf people. Both deaf and hearing people in that congregation told us that you can&#8217;t have a successful ministry for every kind of disabled and able-bodied person. If you&#8217;re going to provide ASL interpretation, stick to that, and don&#8217;t also try to provide comprehensive ministries to blind people as well.  And I later learned this in other contexts, e.g., incorporating persons with serious mental illnesses into your programs and ministries can take a lot of resources.</p>
<p>Something else I should have said at the workshop: UU congregations can be really great places for kids with mild to moderate learning disabilities. We don&#8217;t care if kids can&#8217;t read, so they can succeed in Sunday school when they&#8217;re not succeeding in regular school.</p>
<p><em>(11) What are examples of alternatives to a traditional youth group program?</em></p>
<p>If you want to expand and improve your youth ministries, the person to learn from is Jessica Rubenstein, youth minister at the Winchester Unitarian Society in Massachusetts. Winchester Unitarian has an average attendance of about 200 people, which is not very big, but they have a youth program that includes 80 teens. So go take a workshop with Jessica.</p>
<p>I do remember having an email conversation with Jessica, and she said that she does not really use the typical UU concept of youth empowerment, where the youth run the program pretty much by themselves. Her experience was that the youth were just as happy to have adults who would do a lot of the planning and support work. This is not to say that the youth didn&#8217;t have a lot of input into the program; it&#8217;s just adults did more. This tallies with my experience: while a few youth love the opportunity to run things completely by themselves, more youth are simply frustrated by this approach.</p>
<p>Another great example of a youth program: Some years ago when I was serving in Lexington, Massachusetts, we had a youth group with an attendance of 20 to 25, in a congregation with an average Sunday morning attendance of about 200. Follen Church, the UU church down the road in East Lexington, was about the same size as my church, but they had 40 to 50 youth showing up. I asked the then-MRE, Emily Leite, how they got so many youth. She said that they had alternating programs. One week, they&#8217;d devote the whole youth group time to check-in; they next week they&#8217;d have a structured program of some kind. There were some youth who came to the unstructured check-in but not to the structured programs; some who came to the structured programs but avoided unstructured check-in; and some who came every week. I thought this was a nice compromise.</p>
<p><em>(12) What do the teens at the Palo Alto church do on Sunday mornings? (It wasn&#8217;t clear to me whether &#8220;youth circle worship&#8221; was abolished or what.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;m not going to abolish &#8220;youth circle worship&#8221; or any other ministry or program that is adequately serving even a minority of persons. If it&#8217;s a tiny program or ministry, I may not be able to devote very much in the way of resources or volunteer time to it, but I&#8217;m not going to abolish it.</p>
<p>Having said that, the Palo Alto youth group has been in a boom-bust cycle for decades. Two years ago, the youth group was doing pretty well. Today, it&#8217;s down to two youth, both of whom are very involved with non-church activities on Sunday morning, so the youth group doesn&#8217;t really meet any more. On the other hand, the middle school youth are currently booming &#8212; we have 20 kids enrolled in the Sunday morning middle school group, and another 15 enrolled in the OWL class (with some overlap between the two groups).</p>
<p>One thing worth mentioning: when I first arrived in Palo Alto in 2009, the first youth group meeting had a dozen or so youth and three adults (two advisors and me) in a room that could hold 9 persons (based on 25 square feet per person). I tried to get another, larger room for the youth group to use, but I was unable to get this through the congregational bureaucracy in time. Not surprisingly, within a month average attendance had dropped to seven or eight, which was about the comfortable capacity of that room. The youth group never really recovered from that moment. This confirmed for me once again how important it is to have enough space.</p>
<p>I also have heard from several youth who do not go to youth group because they were bored by it (they told me this in no uncertain terms!). We&#8217;ve been using the typical UU youth empowerment model, and these youth thought it was a waste of time. These youth probably represent half of the youth associated with our congregation. The key thing here is to listen closely to the youth and their parents: if we can listen non-defensively, and without preconceptions as to what is the &#8220;correct&#8221; way to do youth ministry, they will tell us what works for them and what doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>I believe that the best approach is to have multiple ways that youth can get involved in the congregation. If you don&#8217;t have a lot of volunteers or resources, I&#8217;d look at the model used by the Follen Church, described above. We&#8217;re probably going to try something like that in Palo Alto next year.</p>
<p>Also, we are currently working with the book <em>Sustainable Youth Ministry</em> by Mark DeVries. We will be following his advice for building up our infrastructure to support our youth ministries on a sustainable basis. I highly recommend this book.</p>
<p><em>(13) Have you tried integrating small group ministry approaches into your program?</em></p>
<p>Yes, though not formally. What I suggest to Sunday school teachers is that they have an opening ritual where they light a chalice; then have time for check-in (&#8220;say one good thing and one bad thing that&#8217;s happened to you in the past week&#8221;); then have some kind of structured content, probably a story; then process the story through acting it out, drawing it, discussing it, etc.; then having unstructured time for fun; then having a closing circle. This structure looks very much like what adults do in small group ministries.</p>
<p><em>(14) Talk about improving the quality of the programming so kids really want to come.</em></p>
<p>This was answered in some of the previous questions. But really, the important thing to remember is that you only need a program that&#8217;s good enough. You can have the best program in the world, but if you don&#8217;t also have $1,000-1,500 per kid, one adult per two kids, 25 square feet per kid, and plans in place for possible growth, I would expect kids won&#8217;t want to come.</p>
<p><em>(15) What programmatic changes have you made that have led to the greatest growth?</em></p>
<p>See above, answer to question 14.</p>
<p>Also, volunteer management is crucial &#8212; remember the volunteer management cycle of recruit, train, support, recognize. If your volunteers are happy, they will transmit that happiness to the kids, and the kids will want to keep coming back. Once again, the program only has to be good enough.</p>
<p><strong>Other topics</strong></p>
<p><em>(16) Would you please describe in more detail your process for how many times you &#8220;track&#8221; or &#8220;interview&#8221; families? What I mean by this is what do you make sure to do when new families first come to your church &#8212; then when do you follow up with them &#8212; then when do you ask them to pledge?</em></p>
<p>When new families first come into our congregation, you do with them what you&#8217;d do with anyone else: make sure to introduce them to someone like them. For families with children, that usually means introducing them to another family with kids of the same or similar age. (I&#8217;m assuming that you&#8217;re already doing the obvious things: making sure every newcomer is greeted and gets crucial newcomer information, making sure your congregation has a culture of being open and kind to newcomers, making sure that you have a good enough program and adequate infrastructure in place, etc.)</p>
<p>Ours is a small program &#8212; only about 100 kids enrolled &#8212; so I can follow up with every family at least once a month. I do that informally, just making sure that I talk to everyone as much as possible.</p>
<p>As far as pledging, I make sure to get names and contact info of new families to the canvass committee, and to the finance committee. They mostly do their job, and when they don&#8217;t, I bug them.</p>
<p><em>(17) What is your RE staffing: paid teachers or clergy, volunteers.</em></p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t adequately answer this during the workshop.</p>
<p>As far as paid staff goes, you will want to spend about $1,000-1,500 per kid, and most of that will be on staff costs. As to how to divide that up, that&#8217;s up to you. To state the obvious, the more paid teachers you have, the fewer hours you can pay a director of religious education (DRE) or minister of religious education (MRE). To further state the obvious, your DRE or MRE will probably be spending a great deal of their time on volunteer management.</p>
<p>As far as volunteer staff goes, you already know you need one adult for every two kids. If you want to pay some of those adults, that&#8217;s fine, but you&#8217;ll still need one adult for every two kids.</p>
<p>In terms of my personal opinion, I don&#8217;t see how the typical congregation can afford enough paid teachers to come up with one adult for every two kids. I&#8217;d be more willing to invest my money in a DRE or MRE with good volunteer management skills &#8212; or invest my money in training the current DRE or MRE in volunteer management. But that&#8217;s just my opinion.</p>
<p><em>(18) My first instinct was that growth was a good thing. After walking with the congregation for one year, I have found that we barely have volunteers to run programs for more children. How do we create the structure to make room for growth?</em></p>
<p>It ain&#8217;t easy. Growth takes work. Growth takes patience. You have to keep working on it for years before you really make progress. But keep working the volunteer management cycle &#8212; recruit, train, support, recognize &#8212; and the more that volunteers have fun serving in your program, the more of them you&#8217;ll get who are willing to return year after year.</p>
<p>Something I didn&#8217;t say in the workshop but should have: My ideal is to have a volunteer pool consisting of half parents/guardians, and half non-parents/guardians. I also aim for half men and half women. When I achieve both those goals, things go more smoothly. Also, I aim to support volunteers so they will stick around for at least a decade. Volunteering in a religious education program is hard work for the first two or three years, and then it starts to get really fun after that. You want to hang on to volunteers long enough for them to have a lot of fun.</p>
<p><em>(19) Comment: Send birthday cards to youth who are transitioning into young adulthood to let them know the congregation still loves them.</em></p>
<p>What a great idea! We send birthday cards to every kid enrolled in the program, up through about age 19. Now that you say this, I&#8217;m going to keep sending cards to kids through age 21.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[First post in this series. Conclusion: Let&#8217;s review what it takes to transform and grow your programs and ministries for children and youth: You have to figure out how you&#8217;re going to measure growth, because you will get the growth that you measure for. Then there are four steps to growth: One: You must have [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Conclusion:</strong></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s review what it takes to transform and grow your programs and ministries for children and youth:</p>
<p>You have to figure out how you&#8217;re going to measure growth, because you will get the growth that you measure for.</p>
<p>Then there are four steps to growth:</p>
<p>One: You must have a compelling vision, and I suggest that compelling vision is encompassed within four big goals: to have fun and build community; to gain religious literacy; to gain the skills associated with liberal religion; and to prepare kids to become Unitarian Universalist adults who are sensitive, moral, joyful, and have integrity.</p>
<p>Two: You must build an infrastructure that will support your transformative and growing program, including $1,500 per kid, one adult volunteer per two kids, 25 square feet of physical space per kid, a good enough program, and plans in place to continue growth.</p>
<p>Three: You can pluck low-hanging fruit as it is available, to help motivate and encourage everyone involved.</p>
<p>Four: You must have at least five years&#8217; worth of patience; and if your congregation is on a stalled growth plateau, you will need twice as much time, a decade&#8217;s worth of patience.</p>
<p>And the whole purpose of this is growth and transformation. We want children to grow up into caring, sensitive, moral adults with deep integrity. We want our congregations to grow so that we can accommodate all those people out there who want to join us. They might not yet know that they want to join us, but they are waiting for our fun, moving, life-transforming message. Sometimes we literally save people&#8217;s lives, and that alone would be enough justification to expand our reach through growth. We also transform people&#8217;s lives (including our own lives) on a less dramatic level because we provide a place where we can makes sense out of life: we make sense out of life being part of a community where we can share our deepest selves; we make sense out of life through an intellectual knowledge of religion that helps us be better citizens in a multi-cultural, multi-religious world; we make sense out of life by gaining personal skills like meditation and singing that help us find meaning; we make sense out of life by joining a religious community whose values we share and believe to be of utmost importance.</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-questions/"><em>Questions from participants, with my answers.</em></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 01:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First post in this series. Step four: Have patience and hold on for at least five years I got spoiled in my first job as a director of religious education. In my first three years on the job, we more than tripled enrollment, and probably tripled attendance. That first job gave me the impression that [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Step four: Have patience and hold on for at least five years</strong></p>
<p>I got spoiled in my first job as a director of religious education. In my first three years on the job, we more than tripled enrollment, and probably tripled attendance. That first job gave me the impression that growth is easy, and that it happens quickly.</p>
<p>Sometimes that is in fact true: sometimes everything comes together and you get explosive growth in a short time without much effort. But most of the time, it takes years of hard work to get growth that you measure in a few percentage points each year.</p>
<p>Or, and this is more common than even slow growth, you find yourself stalled on a plateau for years at a time. Let&#8217;s talk about these growth plateaus for a moment. Growth plateaus often occur when the year-round average attendance of adults and children in a congregation is between 35 and 60, and again when attendance is between 150 and 200. When I look at 2011 attendance data on the UUA Web site, I can see several congregations in our district that may be stuck on one of these plateaus. Chico, Lake County, Sacramento Community Church, Stockton, and Sonora may be stuck on that lower plateau. Oakland, San Francisco, and San Mateo may be on that higher plateau. You may be interested to know that congregations that have stalled on growth plateaus seem far more likely to experience serious conflict &#8212; and watch out for conflict: it can stop growth dead, so you will want to manage conflict carefully so that it does not stop growth.</p>
<p>The only way to figure out for sure if your congregation is stalled on one of these plateaus is to check attendance data going back at least a decade. My own congregation in Palo Alto is reporting an average attendance of 208, but looking at our attendance data shows that we&#8217;ve been stalled on a growth plateau since about 1998. A couple of times we have broken 200 average attendance, only to fall back below that number after a year or two.</p>
<p>Growth usually takes patience, and it usually takes years. If you&#8217;re stalled on a growth plateau, it can take twice as many years and far more patience. If you discover that you&#8217;re stalled on a growth plateau, the best advice I can offer you is to stick to the basics: Carefully measure enrollment, attendance, and pledge income. Continue to maintain an administrative structure that provides adequate funding, adequate volunteers, adequate physical space, and a good enough program. Pluck low-hanging fruit when it&#8217;s available. And have patience.</p>
<p>The good news is that you don&#8217;t have to be a genius to create growth in your programs and ministries for children and youth. You just have to be good enough &#8212; and you have to be patient.</p>
<p>Any questions about having patience and holding on for at least five years?</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-conclusion/">Now on to the conclusion&#8230;.</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 01:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First post in this series. Step three: Plucking some low-hanging fruit A good deal of the work of creating transformative growth is pretty boring behind-the-scenes work. It can be tough motivating people to keep at it, year after year. So it is wise every once in a while to come up with some spectacular results [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Step three: Plucking some low-hanging fruit</strong></p>
<p>A good deal of the work of creating transformative growth is pretty boring behind-the-scenes work. It can be tough motivating people to keep at it, year after year. So it is wise every once in a while to come up with some spectacular results to keep people interested and motivated. Let me tell you about a few tried-and-true means for doing this:</p>
<p>(1) If the attendance of children and youth drops off in your congregation during the summer, one of the easiest ways to boost attendance is to improve your summer offerings. This is what the Palo Alto religious education committee and I decided to do a year ago. We had tried all kinds of showy programs in the summer, and none of them had worked. One of our key volunteers said that what she&#8217;d like to do was chuck all programs altogether, and simply focus on our first big goal of having fun and building community. She said she&#8217;d take the kids to the park every Sunday during the summer to play and have fun. This is a fine example of a good-enough program. Actually, it was too good: it boosted our summer attendance so much that we saw a 21% increase in overall attendance; we wanted good enough, and now we have this big success we are expected to match again. Nevertheless, in many congregations, boosting summer attendance is an easy way to pluck some low-hanging fruit.</p>
<p>(2) Run a special program in the late spring when attendance usually drops off. Late spring projects that have been successful for me: taking 8 weeks to rehearse a play; the old Marketplace 29 A.D. Vacation Bible School program; a program on peacemaking. I&#8217;ve done this year after year in congregations I&#8217;ve served; it doesn&#8217;t always boost attendance, but it always at least provides a welcome change of pace for volunteers. And it&#8217;s usually easier to manage than trying to drum up enthusiasm to continue regular Sunday school classes through the bitter end of May or into June.</p>
<p>(3) Parties, overnights, and trips all generate enthusiasm, and often provide a small but measurable boost in attendance. I&#8217;ve taken youth groups to Chicago and to New Orleans. I&#8217;ve run overnights for grades 5 and up. I&#8217;ve helped organize parties for classes, for volunteers, and for the whole Sunday school. These projects are easy enough to do (except the youth group trips), and while the boost in attendance may be small, it is always welcome.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m calling &#8220;low-hanging fruit&#8221; are things that are not going to create the kind of long-term upward growth trend that you can create through the boring work of management and building administrative infrastructure. But they are things that are fun, that provide short-term boosts in attendance, and most importantly they help keep everyone motivated.</p>
<p>This notion of motivation will bring us nicely to the fourth and last step&#8230; but first, any questions about low-hanging fruit?</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-5/">And now on to step four&#8230;.</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 01:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First post in this series. Step two: Building infrastructure Now let&#8217;s go on to the next step, building the infrastructure to support and sustain a growing program. (Remember that step two runs concurrently with step three, which is picking low-hanging fruit.) If we&#8217;re going to adequately support growth of programs and ministries for young people, [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Step two: Building infrastructure</strong></p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s go on to the next step, building the infrastructure to support and sustain a growing program. (Remember that step two runs concurrently with step three, which is picking low-hanging fruit.)</p>
<p>If we&#8217;re going to adequately support growth of programs and ministries for young people, we&#8217;re going to need at least five essential elements. Let me list the five elements I think are essential:</p>
<p>(1) Money, from $1,000 up to $1,500 per kid. Money mostly goes to pay for staff time, and some goes to supplies.</p>
<p>(2) Volunteers, about 1 adult volunteer for every two kids. This includes both volunteers who have direct contact with kids, and those who do support work.</p>
<p>(3) Physical space, about 25 square feet per kid.</p>
<p>(4) A good enough program. We don&#8217;t need a supercalifragilisticexpealidocious program, you just need one that&#8217;s good enough.</p>
<p>(5) Pretty good plans in place to come up with more of the above when you begin to grow.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s look at each of these five essential elements. <span id="more-1584"></span></p>
<p><em>First, money.</em> If you have a year-round average attendance of 100 children and youth, I would expect you to hire a full-time experienced staff person. In the Bay Area, the total cost for salary and benefits for that full-time staff person will be about $100,000. That person will also need administrative support, in the form of approximately a half-time equivalent staff person, and a modest program budget of two to five thousand dollars. Thus, the total cost to the congregation will be on the order of $150,000, or $1,500 per kid. (Remember that your total enrollment will be around 200 kids, and your peak attendance will be probably come close to 200 on peak Sundays.) If your congregation is in an area that is less expensive than the Bay Area, you might get away with paying less per kid.</p>
<p>You can, of course, try to save money and pay your religious education staff person less. This has been the typical strategy of Unitarian Universalist congregations, and as a result the average tenure of a religious educator is on the order of two and a half years. I would suggest to you that turning over your religious education staff person every two and a half years is not wise. First, staff job searches are expensive, both in actual costs and in time lost due to getting a new staffer to become maximally effective. Second, every time you turn over a staff person, you tend to lose some families. So don&#8217;t be penny-wise and pound-foolish. Suck it up, and expect to pay $1,500 per kid.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s another obvious point to be made here: If you grow your program, at some point you will have to increase staff time. It would be wise to have a funding plan in place before this happens.</p>
<p><em>(2) Second: one adult volunteer for every two kids.</em> You should have four teachers or youth advisors in each teaching team, with about ten kids in each class or group. You have four on each team because you need to have two adults with every group of legal minors for safety reasons, and most adults have busy lives and cannot commit to being present each and every week. In addition to that, you will have other adults serving on the Religious Education Committee, and volunteering to provide program support in other ways.</p>
<p>Now that you know how many adult volunteers you need, you should begin to see that volunteer management is going to take up a great deal of your time. The quality of your volunteers is the key thing that determines the quality of your programs and ministries, so you will want to find the best people to serve, and when you find them you will want to keep them. To do this, remember the volunteer management cycle: recruit &#8212; train &#8212; support &#8212; recognize. And remember that the volunteer management cycle actually begins, not with recruitment, but with support. When your current volunteers feel adequately supported, not only will they perform better, but they are far more likely to sign up to volunteer again.</p>
<p><em>(3) Third: 25 square feet per kid.</em> When you cram too many kids into a space that&#8217;s too small for them, you begin to get behavior problems, which results in lowered attendance. So you really don&#8217;t want anything less than 25 square feet per kid.</p>
<p>If you want to grow, it&#8217;s good to have a plan in place on how you can add physical space to accommodate growth. Here&#8217;s how you can add space without building a new building: Add another session of Sunday school. Use non-traditional spaces for classrooms, including minister and DRE offices. Clean up a room filled with junk to create a classroom. Rent spaces nearby.</p>
<p>The space you use for classes and youth groups does not have to be dedicated classroom or youth group space, but in my experience it does have to look like it belongs to the congregation. In every case that I know of where a congregation rents out rooms to an intensive user such as an outside school or a community group, such that the space looks like it belongs to the outside school or community group &#8212; in every such case, the congregation&#8217;s program for children and youth has been in long-term decline. The space has to look like it belongs to your congregation, and that your congregation welcomes kids.</p>
<p>(4) The fourth essential thing that you need is a program that&#8217;s good enough. It almost doesn&#8217;t matter what that program is, as long as it helps progress towards the four big goals we talked about earlier. I hear religious educators debating the relative merits of traditional Sunday school curriculum books, &#8220;Spirit Play,&#8221; the workshop rotation model, the junior church model, and so on. I don&#8217;t think it matters that much. You don&#8217;t need the newest, most spectacular, whiz-bang program; you just need one that&#8217;s good enough. If your current program is just good enough, keep it; don&#8217;t bother looking for a super-duper program.</p>
<p>Having said that, I do think that it is important that your program makes sense over time. That is, your program should account for what an individual kid is going to learn starting at birth and going through at least age 18. This is what we call vertical curriculum integration. At the most basic level, vertical curriculum integration makes sure you don&#8217;t repeat the same lesson or topic over and over; I still remember the child who said mournfully, &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to make dioramas of a Palestinian village; We did that last year, and the year before that, too!&#8221; At a more sophisticated level, vertical curriculum integration guides a child through a series of age-appropriate structured learning events so that the child gains a coherent body of knowledge over the course of their childhood and teen years. In short, the actual curriculum books or programs that you use are less important than the overall structure.</p>
<p>Most congregations lose 75% of their kids by the end of the Our Whole Lives program for grades 7-9, and/or by the end of the Coming of Age program. This suggests to me that the typical youth group program is not good enough. Many youth groups spend most of their time just hanging out with one another. While this kind of program works for a minority of teens (say 25% of them), I have heard back from the other 75% of teens who consider this to be a boring waste of their time. A decade ago, I watched as Jessica Rubenstein built the youth group of Winchester Unitarian Society in Massachusetts up to 80 teens &#8212; this in a congregation with an average attendance of about 200. In talking with her about what she did, she mentioned that in direct contradiction to the conventional idea of youth empowerment, where the youth run the program themselves, she mostly ran the program; and she said the youth preferred that. My congregation in Palo Alto is almost exactly the same size as Jessica&#8217;s congregation; we still run my youth group on the principle of youth empowerment, and we&#8217;re lucky to get ten youth showing up on any given week.</p>
<p>Do not underestimate the power of a good enough program. You do not need a stellar program, but you do need one that makes sense over time, and give s a sense of purpose.</p>
<p><em>(5) Fifth: a plan of what to do if you begin to grow.</em> Where will you get more money? How will you retain and attract volunteers? How will you get more physical space? I have already talked about how you might answer all these questions.</p>
<p>Have you begun to notice how much of what I&#8217;m talking about relates to administration and management? I spent fifteen minutes talking about how to measure the size of your program. Now I have just spent another fifteen minutes talking about building up an administrative infrastructure that will take care of money, volunteers, physical space, a good enough program, and planning. Creating a transformative, growing program is not rocket science; in fact, conceptually it&#8217;s pretty simple. The hard part is having the patience to follow through on the administrative tasks year after year.</p>
<p>This will bring us to step three&#8230;. but first, any questions about building an adequate infrastructure?</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-4/">And now on to step three&#8230;.</a></p>
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		<title>Transform and grow your RE program, pt. 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 01:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[First post in this series. Transform and grow your children and youth ministries and programs Now I&#8217;d like to outline for you one possible process for transformational growth. This is a four step process. In step one, you develop a compelling vision and set measurable goals based on that vision. Then steps two and three [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-1/"><em>First post in this series.</em></a></p>
<p><strong>Transform and grow your children and youth ministries and programs</strong></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;d like to outline for you one possible process for transformational growth. This is a four step process. In step one, you develop a compelling vision and set measurable goals based on that vision. Then steps two and three run concurrently. In step two, you build the infrastructure to support a growing program. In step three, you pluck some low-hanging fruit to build enthusiasm among families, volunteers, and lay leaders. In step four, you have patience and hold on for at least five years.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at each one of these steps.</p>
<p><em>Step one: Develop a compelling vision</em></p>
<p>I have served in eight different Unitarian Universalist congregations as a religious educator, an interim minister, and a parish minister. These congregation ranged in size from the 3,000 member Church of the Larger Fellowship, our online congregation, to a 25 member church. Eventually, I noticed that each of these congregations had approximately the same vision for its programs and ministries for children and youth. And finally I wrote down this shared vision in the form of four big learning goals. Here they are:</p>
<p>(1) We want children to have fun and feel they are part of a religious community.</p>
<p>(2) We want children to gain the basic religious literacy expected of informed citizens in our society.</p>
<p>(3) We want children to learn the skills associated with liberal religion, skills such as public speaking, singing, meditating, basic leadership skills, interpersonal skills, etc.</p>
<p>(4) We aim to prepare children to become Unitarian Universalist adults, should they choose to become Unitarian Universalists when they are old enough to make their own decisions. To this end, we help children to become sensitive, moral, and joyful people, people who have intellectual integrity and spiritual insight. </p>
<p>I wrote down these four goals, and began presenting it to parents and guardians of children and youth. They immediately understood these goals, and more importantly they liked them. These goals set forth what they want for their children: to have a supportive place to grow up; to learn some basic religious facts; to gain some basic skills; and to grow up to become good human beings, the kind of good human being we like to imagine Unitarian Universalists are.</p>
<p>Lay leaders and volunteers also like these goals, not only because that&#8217;s what they want for our Unitarian Universalist kids, but also because these goals are specific and measurable. Let me take a moment to show you how each goal can be measured. <span id="more-1582"></span></p>
<p>The first goal, having fun and being part of a religious community, is easy to measure: you track attendance as a percentage of total enrollment from September through May; if your average attendance is 50%, parents are probably dragging their kids to your programs; if you&#8217;re at 70%, kids are having fun and they are the ones demanding to go to your programs so they can see their friends and have fun. When you tell volunteers that you are measuring the success of the program by this means, they are more likely to allow time for fun and games and they will incorporate time for kids to talk about their lives; and I have found this means that not only do volunteers start having more fun, but you better meet children&#8217;s pastoral need to talk about their lives and have a caring adult pay attention to them. Finally, when you tell your lay leaders that having fun and building community is your first goal, because if kids don&#8217;t show up you can&#8217;t teach them anything, they understand it immediately, and offer total support.</p>
<p>The second goal, gaining the basic religious literacy expected in our society, is more difficult to measure. We stopped doing assessment in Sunday school many decades ago, and these days we rarely take the time to develop appropriate assessment instruments. However, in the absence of adequate assessment instruments, I have substituted a curriculum grid that outlines which topics we expect a child to go through over the course of their Sunday school career, up through the coming of Age program. It&#8217;s a sort of checklist of what we&#8217;re going to teach kids; it&#8217;s not perfect, but it&#8217;s adequate.</p>
<p>The third goal, learning the skills associated with liberal religion, things such as public speaking, singing, meditation, basic leadership skills, interpersonal skills, etc., gets measured about the same way that the goal of religious literacy gets measured. However, these skills can get addressed outside of Sunday school time. For example, assuming your kids are in the first fifteen minutes of every Sunday service, you can teach singing skills by making sure the first hymn comes from a small group of half a dozen hymns and songs that kids will learn by singing them over and over again, week after week. Teenagers can be recruited to serve on committees, with appropriate mentoring. Specific skills can also be incorporated into specific programs: decision-making skills are part of the Our Whole Lives program for grades 7-9; public speaking is part of the Coming of Age program; and so on.</p>
<p>The fourth goal, aiming to prepare kids to become Unitarian Universalist adults, can be measured at the completion of the Coming of Age program. You ask Coming of Age graduates if they want to become pledging members of your congregation, and expect about 50% to sign the book. Then you track participation of high school aged teens in congregational life until graduation, aiming for a 40% rate of continued participation. It is worth noting that right now we lose something like 85% of the people who grew up as Unitarian Universalists; retaining 40% of our kids into adulthood is actually an ambitious goal.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s worth noting here that if you set these as your four big educational goals, and if you&#8217;re focused on growing your program, you will probably have to let go of some cherished and beloved programs. For example, even though I have been very active in district and continental youth ministry since 1995, I no longer am willing to put time and energy into our district&#8217;s Coming of Age and youth programs, even though I miss district youth ministry a lot. First, I have found that district programs attract less than 25% of all our congregation&#8217;s youth. Second, my experience has been that district programming rarely meets the second and third of our big goals. Third, I&#8217;ve never seen district youth programs result in growth; in fact, it&#8217;s usually the opposite. Even though I&#8217;ve been deeply committed to district and continental youth ministry since 1995, growth takes a lot of time and energy and I can no longer justify putting time and energy into programs that don&#8217;t produce the results I say I want. I bring this up as just one example of how adopting a compelling vision can force you to give up cherished programs and ministries; there are many, many others.</p>
<p>On the other hand, when you present these four big goals as your vision for what kids will get out of your program, everyone &#8212; including the kids &#8212; responds positively. Kids are happy, even though they may complain, because they feel a sense of purpose, and because they like to know when they&#8217;ve achieved mastery of something. Parents/guardians are happy, because they know what they&#8217;re going to get. And volunteers and lay leaders are happy because they feel a strong sense of purpose.</p>
<p>Any questions about the compelling vision?</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-3/">On to the next step&#8230;.</a></p>
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		<title>Transform and grow your RE program, pt. 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 01:38:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Congregational growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is part one of a presentation I&#8217;ll be giving tomorrow at the annual meeting of the Pacific Central District of Unitarian Universalist congregations. As you will see, growth is not rocket science; growth is all about patient attention to detail. I think you will find this presentation to be quite different from other Unitarian [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This is part one of a presentation I&#8217;ll be giving tomorrow at the annual meeting of the Pacific Central District of Unitarian Universalist congregations. As you will see, growth is not rocket science; growth is all about patient attention to detail. I think you will find this presentation to be quite different from other Unitarian Universalist approaches to growth: it&#8217;s kind of geeky; it&#8217;s not exciting; it lacks sexy jargon terms; and it&#8217;s all about management and administration. However, since the exciting, sexy, theological approaches don&#8217;t seem to be working all that well, maybe you should check out my approach&#8230;.</em></p>
<p>Welcome!</p>
<p>We&#8217;re going to talk about transforming and growing your programs and ministries for children and youth. And my emphasis is going to be on growth. I believe that there are many families who would love to have their children participate in our programs and ministries for young people, and wee need to make room for them in our congregations. Furthermore, <a href="http://www.search-institute.org/content/40-developmental-assets-adolescents-ages-12-18#">research by the Search Institute</a> shows that regular participation by youth in a religious congregation correlates with a decrease in risky behaviors such as substance abuse; therefore, by having more kids participating regularly in our congregations, we are literally saving lives.</p>
<p>If this is not the workshop you were expecting, feel free to leave now or at any time without embarrassment. I only want you to be here if you want to be here.</p>
<p>And if you want to ask questions, please write them down (legibly). I am going to post the entire presentation online, and I want to include your questions online. I will stop periodically during this workshop to take your questions.</p>
<p><strong>How to measure growth</strong></p>
<p>If you really want to grow your programs and ministries for children and youth, the first thing you have to do is figure out how you&#8217;re going to measure growth. More often than not, you get exactly the kind of growth you measure for. This is so important that we&#8217;re going to take fifteen minutes right now to go over this. <span id="more-1580"></span></p>
<p>Perhaps the most common way to measure the size of a religious education program is to count the number of children and youth for whom you have signed registration forms &#8212; after all, this is the number the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) asks congregations to report each year. The strength of this measure of program size is that it is well-defined: you gather all the paper registration forms and count up the number of names on them. However, this measure of program size has two big weaknesses. First, if you&#8217;re aggressive at getting everyone who walks in the door with kids to fill out a registration form, you can drive your numbers up very quickly, but you will not be accurately measuring the number of kids who actually show up at your program on a regular basis. Second, if you&#8217;re not very aggressive at getting families to fill out registration forms, there are always a significant percentage of families (sometimes as high as 30-50%) who just never fill out the form. In short, in my experience the number of registered children and youth usually is not a good measure of the actual number of warm bodies in your classrooms.</p>
<p>The next most common way to measure the size of a religious education program is to count the number of children and youth who are physically present on every Sunday of the year, and then to calculate the average Sunday attendance. Most of us keep good attendance records, because we are dealing with legal minors, so usually it is a simple matter to calculate average annual weekly attendance. Furthermore, the UUA is now requiring annual attendance figures, so most of us are keeping records on attendance anyway. However, this measure of program size also has its weaknesses. First, when you have intergenerational services, it&#8217;s difficult to count the number of children and youth present, and the children and youth are simply counted as part of the adult attendance. Second, there are often non-traditional programs that perhaps do not take place on Sunday morning (e.g., OWL, Coming of Age, Children&#8217;s Choir, etc.), but which attract children and youth who do not attend other programs, and it is never entirely clear whether those children and youth should be included in the total attendance or not. Finally, volunteers sometimes forget to take attendance, or aren&#8217;t accurate in their attendance taking. While average attendance provides a more accurate measure of the size of a religious education program, the margin of error might be as large as five to ten percent.</p>
<p>A third measure of program size which I have found useful is what I call enrollment. I define enrollment as follows: children are enrolled in the religious education program if (a) their parents/guardians have filled out and signed a registration form; and/or (b) if they have attended three or more times in the previous six to eight months; and children or youth who have not attended at all in the last six to eight months are taken off the enrollment list if no new registration form has been submitted. I find enrollment helps me to correct some of the problems inherent in registration numbers. I calculate enrollment twice annually: once in late August, and once in late December. In August, enrollment allows me to plan for the maximum expected attendance on any given week, an important consideration when recruiting volunteers and allocating rooms. In December, enrollment is the number which I report to the UUA as total registration. Looking at enrollment lists twice a year also allows me to determine which families have drifted away, and what new families have arrived. However, enrollment numbers are more fictional than actual average attendance.</p>
<p>Rather than using just one measure of program size, I think it is wise to use at least two measures of program size together. I like to look at enrollment and average attendance. And I look at these numbers as dynamic, not static; that is, they are constantly changing over time, which means I can look at trends. Ideally, I would collect enrollment and attendance data for at least twenty-five years so I could get a picture of the long-term trends in a given congregation. I also look at the relation between enrollment and attendance figures: if attendance is less than 50% of enrollment then I suspect that the enrollment numbers were padded, or that the program was lousy; if attendance is greater than 70% of enrollment, then I suspect the attendance figures were padded or the program was unbelievably good.</p>
<p>I further break down these two big numbers into more detailed numbers. Perhaps most importantly, I break down enrollment into age groups. This allows me to see if we start losing kids at a certain age. Most often, you&#8217;ll see a slight drop off in enrollment beginning at about grade 5; then there&#8217;s typically a sharp drop off in grades 7 and 8, because we lose about half our UU kids in middle school. Next in importance, I break down attendance into monthly averages, and I graph that to see when we typically have high and low attendance. I also break down enrollment into number of families, and I look at the number of families who pledge or make substantial financial contributions.</p>
<p>As you can see, measuring the size of a program is not a simple matter. And what you measure really makes a difference when you are striving for growth. Let me give you two examples:</p>
<p>In the first example, let&#8217;s say that you have decided to measure growth solely by attendance. I once served as a religious educator in a congregation back east where one of my predecessors did precisely this: this person set a goal of growing the program, and measured growth by signed registration forms. This staff person was notorious for &#8220;swooping down on newcomers&#8221; the moment they walked into the building, and basically forcing them to sign a registration form. On the basis of increased registration numbers, this staff person successfully advocated for a substantial increase in hours and compensation. But when I tracked down attendance records, I discovered that attendance was basically flat throughout this person&#8217;s tenure. So by this other measure, the program had not grown at all.</p>
<p>In the second example, let&#8217;s look at the congregation I&#8217;m currently serving. In 2009, the Board hired a consultant who showed us how to measure the size of the congregation by average attendance, and we subsequently determined that we would aim to increase the average attendance of Sunday morning programs. In 2011, the Sunday morning religious education programs achieved the phenomenal growth rate of 21% over the previous year, as measured by attendance. However, the Board pointed out that there was no increase in people who signed the membership book, adult attendance had not increased, and furthermore a closer look at the numbers revealed that most of the average increase came from a very successful summer program, whereas attendance in winter months was essentially flat.</p>
<p>At the same time, pledge income increased 15% in the 2011 canvass over the previous year, so perhaps the growth wasn&#8217;t entirely fictional; increased attendance can be linked to increased satisfaction, which can in turn be linked to increased pledging. (Parenthetical note: pledges increased once again in the 2012 canvass, and several families with children are in the top quintile of givers.) But on the other hand, while average annual religious education attendance increased by 21%, the total average annual Sunday morning attendance did not increase; the increase in religious education attendance turned out to be linked to a slight decrease in adult attendance. Unfortunately, due to defects in our congregational database, we were unable to determine if our enrollment was up or not; but enrollment was probably flat.</p>
<p>So while we had originally agreed upon average attendance as the way to measure growth, in the end this measure did not prove satisfactory to key stakeholders. The final consensus was that the RE program grew in attendance by about 5% in 2011 (but not in certified members); grew significantly in satisfaction as indicated on evaluations; and grew in terms of pledges. We got the growth we measured for, but we didn&#8217;t get the growth we were really hoping for.</p>
<p>It becomes clear that if your goal is to grow your program, you have to be careful what you measure, and how you measure it.</p>
<p>I believe the best way to measure the size and growth of a religious education program is by looking at three numbers simultaneously: enrollment, attendance, and financial contributions. If your enrollment is going up year by year; if your average attendance is increasing in absolute numbers and is either increasing or remaining constant considered as a percentage of enrollment; if pledge income from families is increasing both in absolute numbers and increasing as fast as or faster than inflation &#8212; then you can be sure you are growing. </p>
<p>Now: if your enrollment is up but neither of the other numbers is up, then most probably your program is not growing, you are merely being aggressive about getting newcomers to sign registration forms. Or if your attendance is up but enrollment is not, then probably satisfaction is increasing, and demands on volunteer and staff time are increasing, but the consensus among congregational leaders will be that you&#8217;re not growing. Or if your pledge income is up, but enrollment and attendance are not up, then maybe you just had really lousy giving in previous years &#8212; or maybe you just have really generous people in your congregation, which is a really nice thing to have, but it&#8217;s not growth the way most of us think about growth.</p>
<p>Therefore, I say unto you: measure enrollment, average attendance, and pledge income. When they are all going up, then you&#8217;re growing.</p>
<p>One final note about measuring growth: I have rarely found that the main congregational database can track the kind of information I need to measure growth. Pretty much the only way I have been able to get accurate information is to track attendance and enrollment on spreadsheets that I maintain on my own computer. </p>
<p>Any questions about how to measure growth?</p>
<p><a href="http://danielharper.org/yauu/2012/04/transform-and-grow-your-re-program-pt-2/">On to the next section&#8230;.</a></p>
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